Your Results:
This study examined which elements of a relationship are most important to you. Here are your results, based on your responses:
Affection is the most important part of a relationship to you!
Based on your responses, the most important factor in feeling close to another person is them regularly expressing love.
Your General Relationship Preferences
Overall, you’re looking for high involvement in your relationships, which means that it takes high levels of attention and maintenance in order for you to feel close with another person. You also seem to want high independence in your relationships.
Your Specific Relationship Preferences
Affection is the most important element of a close relationship to you, followed by:
- Emotional Connection
- Communication
- Support
- Intimacy
- Spending Time Together
- You want to spend low amounts of time together in your close relationships.
- You need very high levels of communication in order to feel close to others.
- You require about average intimacy in your close relationships, which means that you want to share about average amounts of personal information.
- Your desire for people to be there to support you when you need them is about average.
- In order for you to feel close to others, you require very high levels of emotional connection, which means it’s of very high importance to you that other people like you, feel happy thinking about you, and miss you when you’re not around.
- When trying to feel close to others, you need high amounts of affection, which includes others finding ways to show you they love you.
Our relationship preferences are affected by our attachment styles.
Your Attachment Style
Your attachment style is preoccupied. People with this attachment style usually want to have very involved relationships. They may want such high levels of involvement in their relationships that they have a hard time feeling close to other people.
There are four attachment styles.
- Secure individuals have low anxiety and avoidance. For the most part, they form close, comfortable relationships.
- Preoccupied individuals have high anxiety and low avoidance. They like to feel close to other people, but may worry a lot about being abandoned in their relationships.
- Dismissing individuals have high avoidance and low anxiety. They want to maintain control in their relationships, and don’t like it when other people get too close.
- Fearful-avoidant individuals have high avoidance and high anxiety. They may feel conflicting emotions in their relationships—wanting to feel close, but also fearing and disliking closeness.
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